my sweetie
my sweetie, my lover, my friend - I want you to
know how much I love you and why:
Thank you for acknowledging my thoughts and feelings whether they are
positive or negative, justified or unjustified. I feel safe to be myself
knowing I can not be perfect and you will continue to love me.
Thank you for the time you take to give me an extra hug or tell me I am
wonderful or squeezing my hand affectionately. Those silent moments
recharge my senses of appreciation for you.
Thank you for asking if you can help me work on my homework ... it shows
me that you are genuinely supportive of my goals, which are such a part
of who I am.
Thank you for answering all my questions without criticism or impatience
- you have shown me that my dream of a kind and considerate
relationship is a reality. You motive me to expect and tolerate no less
and to be the same with you and those around me. You have created
calmness and safety in my life which I only ever imagined.
Thank you for the times you ask me, "Do WE need to take of this?" The
partnership I have hoped for is expressed in little comments like that.
Thank you for speaking so complimentary of me to others; when you do
this, you place such value on me that makes me only want to be even
better - you have helped me to find my "drive" again.
Thank you for being so appreciative and expressing such when I make you a
drink or remind you of a call to make or errand to run. It shows me you
do not "expect" and makes me want to be the same with you.
Thank you for taking the time and having the thought to inform me of
your plans; you show the respect you have for me and for us. Thank you
for wanting to protect me from unkind words or behavior.
Thank you for constantly telling me or showing me that you are attracted
to me physically, emotionally and mentally - you have brought back the
confidence I had misplaced. Thank you for inviting parts of my world
into yours and making them one.
Thank you for going to my doctor's with me - showing me your concern and
commitment to us - that our relationship is much more than surface
deep. Thank you for always being satisfied with the world; you not only
reminded me of the way I use to "see" things, but are helping me to get
back to that way. Thank you for having control of your future and your
career; you reminded me to have faith and strength in myself.
Thank you for hugging me and kissing me when I get home as if we are
still dating - the passion that I have for us just keeps building!
Thank you for each time you come in, you look for me to say hello! I know you look forward to seeing me.
Thank you for playing games with me, hiding to scare me and talking silly with me; I am assured we will never grow OLD together.
Thank you for tucking me in at night and sharing your real-estate. Thank
you for your heart when we hug goodnight. Thank you for bringing me to a
place where YOUR pleasure and happiness are what truly makes me feel
good.
Each day, I am in awe and I say to myself, "I can't believe I just keep
falling more and more in love with him each day!" Each day, I love
listening to you more. Each day, the intensity and passion when making
love with you just keeps getting deeper. Each day, I find myself wanting
even more for you than you want for yourself. Each moment, I find
myself more patient, more driven, compassionate, less selfish more
appreciative and with greater faith and strength in myself. Each Day
with you in my life and what you give to me, and remind me of just by
you being YOU, I see myself becoming a better person! Thank you for all
you give me by just being in my life.
I love you and only you and want you and only you - I could never have
even imagined or wished for such a blessing when it comes to you and me
being together and how lucky we are to be in love.
Mark, Honey, I love you so very much and I hope this reassures you.